Salim Khan, a titan of Indian cinema with screenwriting masterpieces like Sholay, Deewar, and Zanjeer to his name, is also the proud patriarch of the Khan household, which includes Bollywood stars Salman Khan, Arbaaz Khan, Sohail Khan, Alvira Khan Agnihotri, and Arpita Sharma. In an intimate interview, he opened up about the multifaceted journey of defending his son Salman Khan during times of public controversy.
In an old candid exchange with Zoom, Salim Khan was posed an intriguing question by Pooja Bedi about the one virtue he wishes for his children to adopt. Without missing a beat, Salim articulated, “Patience and anger management. I believe anger, when channeled appropriately, can be a potent emotion. However, uncontrolled anger, especially when fueled by alcohol, is detrimental. If my children can’t manage their drinking, they should eliminate it from their lives entirely.”
This statement offers a glimpse into the thoughtful and nuanced approach Salim has toward parenting. Despite his towering fame in the film industry, he remains grounded in core values he wishes to instill in his children, particularly the importance of managing volatile emotions.
Salim Khan also took the opportunity to reflect on his overarching philosophy of parenting. He acknowledged that he consistently refrained from displaying false humility with his children. “False humility is worse than conceit,” he stated with conviction, adding that his love for his children was unwavering and unconditional. Elaborating on his protective instincts, he said, “Every time Salman has made a mistake, critics expect me to denounce him. But what do they expect me to say? That he deserves the backlash? My love is unconditional. I can’t say to Salman that he must be perfect, or to Arbaaz that he must act in a specific manner to earn my love. They are my children. I love them; I will defend and protect them, but that doesn’t mean I approve of everything they do.”
In another revealing conversation from 2012, Salman Khan opened up about his struggles with anger during an interview with Live Mint. He articulated the debilitating effects of anger on his health and well-being. “I have a lot of anger.
. My aneurysm is also partly due to my anger. Whenever I get angry, it scares me. Anger doesn’t necessarily mean physical violence. It’s more about the feeling that something isn’t right, and you want to correct it but feel powerless to do so. That is the root of my anger,” Salman elaborated, shedding light on his inner battles.
While Salman Khan continues to be one of the most adored and influential figures in the country, his charm and charisma are often juxtaposed with the media frenzy surrounding his tumultuous love life. His personal relationships have regularly made headlines, with his friend and fellow actor Pradeep Rawat providing further insight into this aspect of Salman’s life in a recent interview.
During a candid discussion with Siddharth Kannan, Pradeep Rawat reminisced about Salman Khan’s romances, particularly focusing on his relationships with Somy Ali and Sangeeta Bijlani. Rawat highlighted the emotional turmoil Somy Ali experienced following her breakup with Salman. “Somy Ali was deeply affected by their breakup. Salman, on the other hand, appeared relatively unscathed. He’s exceptionally good-looking and has never been short of romantic prospects. We were all friends and spent a lot of time together, sharing meals and stories. Both Salman and Somy would confide in me about their respective sides of the story,” Rawat recalled.
This web of interpersonal relationships and emotional complexities paints a vivid picture of Salman Khan, not merely as a superstar but as a multifaceted individual navigating the highs and lows of life. His father, Salim Khan’s reflections, and guidance underscore the family’s enduring bond.
As the Khan family continues to be a focal point of public interest, it’s evident that the challenges they face are navigated with a balanced mix of unconditional love and critical introspection. Salim Khan’s candid discussions about anger, parental expectations, and unwavering support for his children reveal a deeply humane side of the famous family, offering valuable life lessons that extend beyond the glitz and glamour of Bollywood.
The saga of the Khan family remains one of resilience, love, and personal growth, resonating deeply with their millions of fans.
