Acclaimed choreographer and filmmaker Farah Khan recently unveiled an intimate chapter of her life, detailing her journey to motherhood through IVF and the unwavering support she received from Bollywood superstar Shah Rukh Khan. The revelation was made during an interview with Nova IVF Fertility, where Farah was candid about her emotional and challenging experience.
Farah, who directed the 2007 blockbuster ‘Om Shanti Om,’ confided in Shah Rukh, the film’s lead actor, during the difficult initial months of her IVF treatment. She went through several rounds of egg retrieval and implantation, facing the disappointment and heartache of unsuccessful attempts. Recounting one particular instance, she shared how she was sure of her pregnancy only to receive her period at the doctor’s office, leading to her sobbing all the way back to the set.
Amidst the demanding shoot for comedic scenes, Shah Rukh sensed her distress and provided solace by initiating a break for her to grieve in his van. Farah’s dedication to her directorial role did not waver despite the personal challenges. Shooting for the iconic song ‘Darde-e-Disco’ became an anecdote of its own, as Farah humorously mentioned how Shah Rukh’s shirtless scenes triggered her morning sickness. A consummate friend, Shah Rukh ensured her comfort by keeping a bucket handy and even ordering a recliner for her to continue directing in a more relaxed position.
Finally, the moment of triumph arrived when the IVF treatment succeeded, and Farah discovered she was pregnant. She excitedly shared the news with Shah Rukh, who had by then become attuned to her struggle and guessed her condition even before she spoke. He was, after her mother, the first to know about her pregnancy.
The birth of her triplets – son Czar and daughters Diva and Anya – in 2008 was a joyous occasion that even saw Shah Rukh visiting the hospital to offer his congratulations, an event that comically resulted in a frenzy akin to a stampede due to his immense popularity.
Farah Khan and Shirish Kunder, her collaborator and husband whom she married in 2004, have since continued to work together on projects, creating a strong partnership both personally and professionally. A testament to their bond is reflected in the films they’ve made post their marriage, including ‘Jaan-E-Mann’, ‘Om Shanti Om’, and ‘Tees Maar Khan’.
Farah’s heartfelt story not only sheds light on the personal lives of these celebrated industry figures but also highlights the importance of friendship, perseverance, and support in the face of adversity. Her experience with IVF and the eventual happiness of embracing parenthood resonate with many who face similar challenges. The filmmaker’s openness about her struggles and eventual success is a beacon of hope and an affirmation of the strength of human spirit and the miracle of modern medicine.
As the world watched on with admiration for their work on the silver screen, behind the scenes, it was the humane touches, the nurturance, and emotional support that underscored the journey to parenthood. Farah Khan’s disclosure is a heartwarming narrative of human connection, resilience, and the joy that comes after a storm – a celebration of life’s most cherished moments, bolstered by friendships that stand the test of time and circumstance.
