Seasoned actor Kalki Koechlin, known for her extensive work in Bollywood, has recently opened up about her personal life, surprising many fans and followers with revelations about her past relationships. The actress, who has been active in the Indian entertainment industry since 2007, shared an unconventional tactic she employed in her youth to end relationships, which has sparked ample conversation.
In a candid conversation with Shenaz Treasurywala on the popular digital show Hauterrfly, Kalki was asked about her approach to breakups. Addressing the likely difficult emotional landscapes one navigates during such times, she admitted, “I think it’s definitely better to do the clean break but it’s very hard. So, just be very sure when you want to break up. I also had another tactic when I was very young, which was to sleep with someone and then tell him. Then, he breaks up with me.”
Kalki’s remarks have drawn varied reactions, with some appreciating her honesty while others debated the ethical implications of her method. Whatever one’s stance, her statements highlight the complexities of youthful relationships and the lengths to which people might go to circumvent difficult confrontations.
During the same interview, Kalki also elaborated on how her views on relationships have evolved over time. Now a mother and living a more settled life, she commented on how her priorities have shifted. “Now that I am married and have a kid, I don’t think I got time for that sh*t, because you just don’t even have time to see your own partner. But I think that it has happened in the past, and again, I think you have to be very specific about your rules and boundaries.”
Kalki Koechlin, who was born and raised in India by her French parents, was previously married to renowned Bollywood director Anurag Kashyap. She currently resides in Goa with her partner Guy Hershberg.
. The couple welcomed their daughter Sappho into the world in 2020, and life has been a different kind of journey for Kalki since then.
Exploring her film career, Kalki has built an impressive portfolio over the years. She gained considerable recognition for her roles in popular Bollywood films such as ‘Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara,’ ‘A Death in The Gunj,’ and ‘Yeh Jawani Hai Deewani.’ Her versatility and talent have also been showcased on digital platforms through her critically acclaimed work in series like ‘Made in Heaven’ and the crime thriller ‘Sacred Games.’
In 2023, Kalki starred in the English-language drama ‘Goldfish,’ which premiered at the 27th Busan International Film Festival. Sharing the screen with Deepti Naval, Kalki delved into the complex character of a loving daughter facing financial difficulties. “Goldfish was special because complex, layered, sensitive, and funny scripts like that are rare to come by. Anyway, there are few roles for someone like me in the industry since the color of my skin limits my roles in Bollywood, and this being about the identity of a half-Indian, half-Britisher was something I knew I was cut out for,” she said in a statement.
The film’s premiere and Kalki’s performance were well-received, further establishing her as a formidable force in cinema. Her portrayal in ‘Goldfish’ demonstrated her ability to bring depth and authenticity to her characters, reflecting her dedication to her craft.
Continuing her journey in diverse genres, Kalki recently appeared in a supporting role in the coming-of-age drama ‘Kho Gaye Hum Kahan.’ Her performance in this role once again showcased her range and ability to connect with audiences through her emotive acting.
Kalki Koechlin’s candid revelations about her past, her evolving perspectives on relationships, and her ongoing commitment to her acting career paint a picture of an individual continually growing and adapting. From her unconventional breakup tactics in her youth to finding meaningful roles that allow her to explore her craft deeply, Kalki remains an influential figure in the Indian entertainment industry. Her openness and willingness to share personal parts of her journey invite a broader conversation about relationships and personal growth, encompassing both the challenges and triumphs that come along the way.
